[It is not-- but she knows he is trying. She disentangles her arms and wraps them around him; holding him.]

...I know you will. [...] But that is why I worry about you too.

[But they've both been foolish here, so she cannot say they are not still incredibly well suited to one another. And she is no less enamored with him for these faults.]

From now on we must simply give much greater care to what we are willing to do and what prices we are willing to pay.